Interview

What helps you feel instantly at ease with someone? What kind of presence do you find yourself drawn to?

I feel instantly at ease with someone who leads with kindness and integrity. I’m naturally drawn to people who can laugh easily and who don’t take life so seriously that they forget to enjoy it. A lightness of spirit paired with genuine character is a combination I find irresistible.

What kinds of dates feel the most fun or meaningful to you?

I love live performances like burlesque, Broadway shows, ballet, opera, concerts, comedy shows - I’m open to almost anything. I love spa days; some of my favorite spas in NYC include QCNY and Aire. I’m a huge fan of tasty food, anything from molecular gastronomy to a neighborhood spot with heart.

Where do you feel the most at home?

In a quiet corner of a new coffee shop, watching the world move around me while I jot down whatever life is teaching me that day.

When will you be in my city?

I’m based in New York City and I tour DC, Boston, Seattle, and San Francisco most frequently. My travel tends to shift with the seasons, so the easiest way to know where I’ll be next is through my newsletter, on X, or by checking the banner on my site. I’m also available for Fly Me to You engagements with a little notice.

Do you offer duos?

Yes! I love duos and I’m happy to recommend friends in New York City, DC, San Francisco, and Seattle.